Housewarming Gifts with Family Heritage: Make Any House a Home

Housewarming Gifts with Family Heritage: Make Any House a Home

The problem with housewarming gifts is that they compete. Everyone brings something for the house, the house already has a plan, and most of it ends up in a cupboard within a year.


4 min read 6 sections Written and checked by the FamilyCrests team

A framed coat of arms hanging on a sand-coloured wall with a Heritage Volume standing on a shelf below

A framed coat of arms is one of the few things that does not compete — because it goes on a wall, walls are the last thing anyone gets round to, and it is the only gift in the pile that is specifically about the people rather than the property.

Why the Wall Is the Right Answer

Heraldry was domestic long before it was decorative. In any medieval household of standing, the arms were on the gates, the chimneypiece, the tapestries, the plate, the book bindings and the livery worn by the servants. The shield above a door was not ornament: it announced whose house this was.

Medieval churches are full of the same thing for the same reason — a family that glazed a window or endowed a chapel put its arms on the work, and the arms stayed when the family did not.

A framed coat of arms is the domestic version of that, and it shows the full achievement — shield, helm, mantling, crest and motto — at a size where every element reads. On a ring or a seal most of that has to be dropped.

Where It Actually Goes

Worth thinking about before you give it, because the wrong wall makes a good piece invisible.

  • The hall or entrance. The traditional position, and the one that does the work the original did: it is the first thing anyone sees, and it says something about who lives here before a word is spoken.
  • A study or home office. Now the most-seen wall in a great many houses, and it survives being in the background of video calls better than almost anything else.
  • Up a staircase, where a single piece reads well and most things do not.

Where it does not go: a corridor nobody stops in, a wall in direct sunlight, or above a radiator or a fireplace in use. Heat and light are what age a framed print, and the damage is slow and permanent.

The Practical Questions

Whose name? For a couple, this is the one to settle first. Two frames — one for each family name, hung as a pair — is the heraldically correct answer, because the traditional way of recording a marriage was to place both coats on one shield, husband's on the senior side and wife's beside it. Two frames is that arrangement, in a form that fits a hallway.

If you are giving one, ask which name the household runs under, and whether both partners kept theirs.

Spelling. Check against a document rather than memory. Ó Súilleabháin, O'Sullivan and Sullivan lead to different places, and so do Müller, Mueller and Miller.

Timing. Personalised pieces are made rather than picked off a shelf, so allow two to three weeks plus shipping. If the move is next Saturday, a digital volume arrives the same day.

The Other Pieces That Suit a New House

A wax seal for the desk. The one heraldic object that can still be used for the job it was invented for — and a new house usually means a new address to tell people about. It is also the rare gift that is something to do.

A brass pocket compass. For someone who has moved a long way, or moved back. It is a real compass, and it makes its own joke without anyone having to explain it.

A Heritage Volume. What the historical record holds for the surname — where it comes from, what it meant, where its bearers were concentrated, and the arms associated with it. The reading version of the same gift, and the one that survives a move to the next house too.

How Your Report Is Made sets out which parts come from public records and which our system builds, including the crest, which is original artwork rather than a facsimile of an armorial entry.

Hanging and Caring for It

Three things that decide whether a framed piece still looks right in twenty years.

  • Out of direct sunlight. UV fades pigment and there is no undoing it. A north-facing wall, or a wall that only gets reflected light, is worth more than a better sightline.
  • Away from heat and damp. Not above a working fireplace or a radiator, and not in a bathroom or an unheated hallway where the temperature swings. Swings are worse than a steady warm room.
  • Hung at eye level, measured from the centre of the piece — roughly 145 to 150 cm from the floor, which is where galleries hang. Most people hang things too high.

One Thing to Avoid

Do not give it with a claim attached. Arms were borne by particular families in particular places, not by everyone sharing a surname — a common name was adopted independently by dozens of unrelated families, and the armorials list several distinct coats under each.

"This is the history attached to your name" is true, checkable and more interesting than the alternative. "This proves you descend from nobility" is a hostage to the first guest who looks it up in your new hallway.

Our guide to verifying a coat of arms covers how to check any heraldic claim, including ours.

More options across every occasion in our guide to family crest gifts.

Shop heritage gifts — everything above applies to one surname in particular.
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